First Sunday of Advent

First Sunday of Advent

Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ

Thirty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time (Cycle C) November 17th 2019

Feast of the Holy Family


             The Feast  of the Holy Family  (First  Sunday after Christmas)

Jesus parents were upset when he was missing and when they found him were astonished  but it didn’t diminish their anxiety.  It was interesting that in the Mediterranean culture the father would have been the one to speak. Yet it was Mary who spoke, and Jesus answer was not what was expected of a child at that time.  They didn’t understand his answer and yet treasured in their heart his answer until they would understand that doing what God was asking  is always to be first not what we want.

The  radical commitment that Jesus teaching will later demand of his hearers he as the child Jesus enacts.  He lets us know at this young age that listening to God is the priority. Despite this event Jesus had love and respect for his parents and is an example for all of us when we think we might “know it all”, but he was always open to Gods leading.

God didn’t create our differences by accident, it is to learn how to listen to those differences and be able to compromise, tolerate, honor God and each other and unite us all in this  love.

We have to get our ego’s out of the way and truly humbly do what God is asking. This is hard because we always think we are doing the “right thing”.

God created  us to be  a community, we are all equal.  Yes, we may have “titles” such as president, spouse, lay leader, priest, bishop, child, and the titles go on.

But the most important is that we are all different but  that does not make us better than the other or higher than the other, we are all equal.  We all have gifts that are needed for true community.  Truly listening with the ear of our hearts to one another, no matter who is speaking is what God is calling us to do.

God has infused all of us with divine love, it is within all of us.  We have the power to live in family and community in spite of our differences.  We have been infused with the wisdom to overcome our pride and ego’s.   We have that divine power within not to turn our backs on those who do not think as we do.

We can welcome them with patience and love. 

God is for everyone and wants us to be one. 

Mary and Joseph whose lives in the beginning was very normal but soon was changed.  We too have to realize that life is constantly changing, and nothing stays exactly the same.  Learning to adapt and think outside the box is a gift.  That is the only way we can grow as a family, a community. 

We are so blessed with this loving giving community and that is our treasure and we have demonstrated that we receive new ideas with that same love and giving. 

God is radically inclusive not looking at our actions but our commitment to  God’s will.  It is not always perfect, it is about our love and concern for one another. When in conflict we listen to one another with honest input love and understanding and are able to come to a consensus.  Fear of something different is a danger in our growth as community.   Out of love we learn how to make the best of all situations, and this will unite us.  This will bring us closer.

Like the Holy Family we too will continue to grow in wisdom age and favor .

We are blessed.  AMEN!

+Michael Theogene


Fr. Peter Sanchez- Fourth Sunday of Advent- Parish of Saints Francis and Clare- Wilton Manors, Florida



Inclusive Lectionary reading: 1 Samuel Chapter 1 verses 24-28 / 1 Samuel Chapter 2 verses 1, 4-7, 8ABCD /  Luke Chapter 1 verses 46-56.


Today’s readings have revealed to me that I cannot take those entrusted to me as my property.  Each person in my life, my spouse, my children, my family members, friends, church family, every person I am responsible for in some way are gifts from God.  It is my job to lead them to the realization of how much God loves them.   Be blessed!

(rev.) Michael Theogene




Inclusive Lectionary reading: Song of Songs Chapter 2 verses 8-14 / Psalm 33 verses 2-3, 11-12, 20-21 /  Luke Chapter 1 verses 39-45.

How much do we love God? Why do we sometimes find it easier to love others around us, who are in the flesh instead of loving someone who is not present to us in physical form? I am reminded of two former co-workers who were from Yemen and were practicing Muslims. They both were introduced to their respective spouses at about age 5 or 6 years old. They both never saw their spouse again until they walked down the aisle to profess their wedding vows. My co-workers were in an arranged marriage, orchestrated by their parents at early ages. Fast forward to the present, they both continue to speak of how in love they are with their spouses. Yes, they may have been a physical beauty, but both continue in their marriages of many years with grown children. What were their thoughts of their supposed beloved who they would not have seen for close to twenty (20) years? What might have they been thinking for so many years, who they knew who they were going to marry, by name perhaps, but no contact? Any courtships, were photos shown how their future wives would look like?

Friends, I am not advocating for or against arranged marriages, but the ability that we have to love, fall in love and keep falling in love with a Creator God who first loved us even before we were formed in the womb. Well maybe God is allowed to cheat since God had a first glance before our physical existence. The same way parents fall in love with a child before physical birth or the arrival of a child that is being adopted, the parents are slowly, steadily falling in love.

Let’s us not only fall in love with who we see but fall in love with those who are not in front of us. Loving the beauty of their souls not their physical looks. Seeing God within them and cherishing the gift they are in our lives.

+Michael Theogene